As a business owner of a computer firm I have been struggling to make a living. It is hard for a Black Man to go through the craziness of thins United States citizen. You have to be five steps better in everything you do. I have learned that you don't give up "period". This special issue on the Blight of the Black Man is awesome. Thank you so much.

Thank you! THANK YOU! As a relatively young black man, I was thankful to read this piece and look forward to more in the series. There is so much work to do but I am inspired and re-energized, knowing that I am not alone in the struggle!

What a surprise to wake up to the front cover today with a beautiful picture of black men on the cover. I especially liked the video series on the website - the new wave in news I think. Mr. Brown's video was particularly interesting to me. Can't wait to read more.

Though you may have all the articles written in advance, you may wish to highlight a "regular," hardworking, and successful generation of men. My husband, William Miner is from such a family and his grandfather and father (both deceased) were well regarded in Washington, DC - his great grandfather fought in the civil war. Now our son is on his way. I just would like to see something that highlighted generational success and what that looks like for African American men.

Thanks for this super coverage of our men. I have two sons and I worry about them, not because they are ignorant, uneducated or criminally involved. I worry because they are having a rough time getting ahead financially and realizing their dreams of family, children, society and so on.

I am their mother and have had a hard time helping them to move along, not give up. Neither has finished college. Both of them want to finish. They work, have their own places and seem determined and persevering.

I've traveled with them; we lived in Africa, in Michigan where I attended graduate school. D.C. is our home. Rather, I should say D.C. use to be our home. Not anymore because traditions and heritance bequeathed to us by my parents, we were robbed of. Those were the "turbulent days of our lives".

As I look back and peruse the present, I find I am most fortunate to have raised my sons largely by myself (certainly, not happy about this) - they are good people, they love diversity, largely conservative in manner, have good aesthetics and have served their country.

Fortunately, as a women I like men, have grown up mostly among men, have watched them closely, etc. I find black men to have a very high regard, love and caring for each other. I wish women were this way. We are not though. But this is another topic which could easily appear somewhere in your coverage of Being a Black Man in America, being a black man in the World.

Thus far, all I have said is just a small aspect or jot of what Being a Black Man in America or the World is all about. The other aspect of what "Being a Black Man" is troublesome for me. It entails what I see as Black men not being in control of their families, community, and to be sure, being a black man is not being in control of the political economy, the economics, foreign policy. Why, we are still taking up time about the vote. For instance, a good chunk of men/black men - formerly incarcerated men can't vote. Now this is really a stupid policy, a form of robbery in my view.

Thanks again

Keep Up the Good Work

The series "Being a Black Man" looks good but I noticed one glaring omission. "Chronology of Black Men in America" does not include the 1995 Million Man March. That march was monumental, historical and pivotal in the history of the Black man and should not be ignored.

QUIT BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE BUT YOURSELVES! THE RACE CARD IS SURE GETTING OLD IN AMERICA. THE SAME CRAP HAPPENS TO EVERY MAN IN AMERICA. SEE WHAT BILL COSBY THINKS ABOUT YOUR ARTICLE. NOW, ASK THE BLACK WOMEN IN AMERICA THEIR OPINIONS ABOUT THEIR BLACK MEN AND THE REASONS AND NUANCES BEHIND THEIR FAILURES.

I read the article today in the news paper and the thing I most remember is black boys are basically taught they are nothing and useless. Question, how can we as African American reeducate not only our sons but others as well? Why is it that we have a church on every corner however they are doing NOTHING for our youth? They are more concerned with their own pockets then helping our children. How can we help the parents, help their children? We are in serious trouble; we all have to be reeducated to love ourselves unconditionally, that is first and foremost. And then we will be better teachers for our children. Parents have to take a stand, like it or not we have produced a lost generation. The parents are to blame. It really saddens me to see my people hating one another, we are the most beautiful gifted people God has created and we are throwing it all away. Why why why?

This is a wonderful project!!!! I will follow it carefully

You are to applauded for profiling this critical issue in America.

I think this series is a terrific idea. I truly would like to understand more about what it means to be a black man. I'm waiting to see how the series develops.

I would also like the Post to do a series on what it means to be a white man in America. Both my parents emigrated from Italy in the 1920's. My dad, a waiter, died of appendicitis four months before I was born in 1940. Life for me was extremely difficult. But I worked at it and made what I consider a success of myself. Yes, I had much help along the way, my 10 year older brother for one, and the New York City public school system for another. My entire education from kindergarten through MBA was taken at NYC schools. I believe that a series on a white man, such as me or anyone of millions of others would be extremely interesting and informative.

As an Ivy League educated black man I will feel vindicated if this great pillar (The Washington Post) of journalism represents the true essence of Black male's existence. I challenge this paper to focus on the millions of Black males who have "pulled themselves up by their proverbial bootstraps" to earn a living in America. I also hope that you will discuss how all Black males regardless of education, income, and morality face prejudice and racism on a daily basis. One idea for future stories is how being a black male is akin to being an "Invisible Man". Simple stated, without suits and other accoutrements of middle and professional class attire we are overlooked and not recognized by our white colleagues.

Thank you in advance for what promises to be a wonderful series and discussion on race.

I read the article on-line at msn.com and I totally related to the story
because it hit me from all side. I am educated (AAS, BS and MBA), but I
have been to prison, but my conviction was overturned, which makes me
wrongfully convicted, yet I am struggling to find employment. I woud
love for you all to continue this series. I would be more than happy to
share my struggles.

Hey Washingtonpost, I just wanted to say, I ate up every single article and
video you posted about black men in the US...keep up the amazing work, and
I'll definitely be back to check when more features are completed.

Thanks so much for the great article

I believe that your topic is severely limited in scope. When
discussing African Americans, the focus is always directed towards
black men with little attention directed towards the struggles and
triumphs of black women. Though I applaud the newspaper's attempt at
an interesting topic, it is extremely lazy for the writers and editors
to continue to concentrate on the problems black men encounter without
a companion piece about black women. If the newspaper really wanted
to engage in a large scale project, they would challenge themselves to
address the disrespectful manner in which African American women are
treated in the media, academia, and in society at large. With your
planned ongoing series focusing on black men you display a complete
lack of respect for the history of black women.

Sadly, I doubt that you will rectify this problem any time in the near
future.

Your series on black men is a slap in the face to current and future
scholars like myself who devout their time to the study of African
American women's history.

This series has started on a very strong note and I'm looking forward to
including some of the articles and media in a class that I'm teaching in
the fall. I don't know if there is any intent on examining health and
health-related behaviors among Black men...this should be included at
some point in the series and there are several experts who are doing
cutting-edge work in this area.

To The Editors and Writers of This Much-Needed Series:

Thank you so much for your skillful reporting and your attention to detail in your report. I say "attention to detail" because I feel you focus as much on the individual as you do on group trends - something a number of reporters and academics fail to do.

However, I hope that you will also address the disparity between first generation American black men, immigrant black men and black men with more firmly planted family roots in America. There are subtle differences there that I feel go mostly unnoticed.

I also hope that you plan on addressing the lives of black women with equal candor. No honest discussion of black men is complete without addressing the lives of black women.

I sincerely hope you will bring your formidable reporting skills to bear on these two important points.

A very interesting article. This article appealed to me so-o-o; you see I am a mother of a young black man who has fared well. From the time I realized he understood words, I began to discuss and speak of the plight of the black man in America. I did this so that nothing he encountered would be a surprise to him as he grew and matured in this world. Also, from early childhood I emphasized the facts that he is SOMEBODY, the love and fear of God, self pride, respect for others and held him accountable for otherwise. More importantly, he was told that he could accomplish any goal he set forth for himself and that education was and is the key to attaining those goals, and that because certain objects were placed in his path, he did not have to partake. I (and the village) exposed him to many experiences and opportunities to prepare him for stepping out in the world. Likewise I taught him what I learned from my parents, and was and still is an example of what I teach. Presently, my son is a rising senior at Morehouse College and I know that he is becoming one strong black man.

Not only did I foster my son, but his friends and other black males I encountered. There is a role in developing males that women must play. We as mothers must, I repeat, must continue to do as our foremothers, and that is keeping our hands never remove them from nurturing and rising of our children and especially now days. And we are "At the Corner of Progress and Peril" as BLACK Americans to succeed, where will we go, how will we get there, for no man is an island. This journey will need all of our hands, will and expertise.

As I sit here in my office, I just happen to click on Washingtonpost.com and saw this article. I'm glad that this is being done and I'm glad that it is being done with a wide spectrum of what it means to be a Black Man. There are many different walks of life that we all come from, and I think it is important to highlight them all. I also think it is important to portray some more youth doing positive work in their communities. Too often they are portrayed in a negative fashion, but we have a whole lot of young brothers doing positive things everyday.

Mr. Merida, Hamil Harris et al,

I am thrilled to have this series to share with my 15-year old rising 11th grader. To have the opportunity to read with him about black men who are more than today's media stereotypes: criminals, rappers, or sports figures in the daily paper is very welcome. I hope it provokes discussions at home and among his friends. As his mom, I must soon face the fear you (Kevin Merida) expressed this morning on C-span - when he starts driving, moving further out into this America and must deal with being "questioned" by police.
I hope there are high school classes that will take advantage of this series and explore the issues raised. And I hope your series provokes hope.

Hamil, I just saw the video presentation "What does it mean to be a black Man?" I look forward to the next.

As a member of the group in question, I feel a serious and thoughtful examination on the subject is well past due. I look forward to seeing where the journey takes us all.

Hey Guys great article.

I am the president of our local school board last year. We live in a small community, we have 4000 kids in our school, and of the 4000 children we will graduate 225. As you can see the senior class started out with 330 kids. Of the 330 kids 64 are African Americans. On graduation day we had roughly 20 African Americans graduate, and I think Five were males.

We Have a "Head Start" Program for all Kids. If they make a mistake we send them to Fresh Start, and If they want they can take Alternative Education to obtain their degree. When we expel the kids for drugs or violence, we give them the opportunity to go in front of the board with their parents, and we may get one or two a year that try and appeal their case. Our board approved a summer school and money for a early learners program.

The sad part is we loose 100 kids between the 9th grade and when they graduate. Some of them do move but there are a lot of children that fall through the cracks. I am not an educator but am PRO EDUCATION, and feel the Head Start is a Joke. You have to get to these kids between birth and when they start school.

I own my own business and we employ 350 people. These 100 kids can not pass the math test or the drug test. Our town once had a large industrial base. They are all gone-China and Mexico. They use to get out of school and go to work. The jobs aren't there anymore.

I feel some how we have to raise these 100 kids. Thet are not being raised in the home. It may be against their rights, but what we are doing now isn't working. I raised two kids and just put them through college. I got to tell you it was the hardest job that I have ever done, and I own my own business.

These are some of my thoughts. Our community is about as blue collar middle class as it gets. God only knows the problems in larger towns.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you

I had to fight through tears while reading today's article. To say that I can relate is an understatement. I am a Black Man that has worked for the U.S. Department of Agriculture for over thirty years. We often refer to it (USDA) as the "Last Plantation." Some of the experiences that I, and other 'REAL BLACK MEN" have experienced here and throughout society is beyond belief. I too am a father and husband, my daughter has graduated college and yet, we still have to struggle with things that should have disappeared by now. It is as if nobody wants to acknowledge that this "slavery" mentality still exists. It does. Your expose is powerful and well written. I look forward to more. It struck a cord with me.

The series on black men has enormous potential. As the mother of a 19
year-old black man I appreciate the Post's decision to do it. My own son
is a child of privilege. He and all of his friends are college
students. But they regularly experience the slights and suspicions that
burden all black men.

I know your challenges include sounding an alarm about the circumstances
of most black men while acknowledging those who have achieved or are
pursuing productive lives at jobs and success in their social
interactions. However, the initial photo series was disappointing. Two
are photos of men "shooting the breeze" outside a bookstore. In another
they're in a sports cafe. The only photos in which black men are in
suits were taken at church service. (The men "not shown" are long dead,
by the way). The photo of men at 5th and Q reinforces stereotypical,
negative impressions visually and by implication: T-shirts, a do-rag,
dreds, a cap on backwards, and, most disturbing, the notion that they
have nothing better to do with their lives than hang out on the corner.
Finally, there is a group of men training to be chefs. There are
several messages in this photo gallery: Black men hang out together a lot
shooting the breeze. Black men are big on sports. To see a significant
number of black men in suits you have to go to a black church. The food
service industry is a promising career direction for black men seeking to
move up in the world.

Other messages could have come through. The bookstore owner is evidently
a successful entrepreneur. He and his friends often talk about important
issues. The men in the sports cafe could perhaps have been photographed
at a sports event with young men (their sons or nephews or kids they are
mentoring). There could have been a group of black men in suits in any
number of white collar settings. There could have been a photo of young
men living at 5th and Q who work full-time for pay that doesn't get their
families out of poverty. (Perhaps that's the situation of the men
pictured but the caption conveys something quite different.) I would
have had no problem with the photo of the men in chef's training if it
were not for my concerns about the collective effect of the six other
photos.

I don't attribute the photo selections and captions to bad intentions on
anyone's part. In particular my guess is that black reporters and
photographers are and will be deeply involved in the development of the
series. Nor do I believe that the purpose of the series is to promote my
or anyone else's social policy agenda. But I believe the photo gallery
illustrates how stereotyped images of black men are ingrained in the
culture and infect choices made every day by people with no conscious
pernicious intent.

Staff:

I am truly excited about the prospect of dialoged and the exchange of philosophy and experience that this series is bringing about. As the only black Industrial Engineer out of about 38 engineers in my company, I can identify with the uniqueness of being black in a professional setting and appreciate anyone that tries to recognize and examine our unique experience (both professionally and casually).

...Bravo!

Some writers for newspapers make the mistake of not forming a good beginning and end idea in their articles. If you considered the black male in a healthy community as a frame for such an article the word peril would not be necessary. Obviously it was used to get the attention of your readers. It is irresponsible to use such a word and for me it was used with the same effect as AIDS, a real threat, is used. It is not right to scream fire in a theatre. The people who exit the theater exit with the same problems. A clear definition of a man comes out of the legend created by men in small and large communities.

The Post article "Being a Black Man" is full of outstanding individual images, but doesn't get to the heart of the definition of a man as it is defined throughout communities of black and brown people through the world. A better article would have focused on communities of black and brown people, people who are of the same texture and color of black Americans.

Find the community with great respect for the sacred. Then look for the sacred, respected male figure. Write about those black men and it will be clear to all that the black man isn't going anywhere. That article or those articles will help to reestablish the tribal definitions of a man. The rappers will then have something to sing about.

Let me also say that all black communities created as a result of the civil war were not equal. Some blacks coming out of slavery were ready to grab the brass ring. There were other communities in which the black man never had a chance and the children of those slaves have never seen a man even to this day.

I am stunned (in a great way) that this article is allowed to run in our present political climate. I applaud your use of the venue to collect oral histories. Please find a way to compile these works for perpetuity. I will be glued in anticipation for the next article in the series.

The very inclusion of this article on the front of the washington post website is racist. Should we also celebrate what it is to be a white man, an asian man, a spanish man?!?!? I was actually getting ready to subscribe to the print edition but you changed my mind.

Thank you for having the foresight, courage, and love to do this series. I am looking at it for the first time online, as I missed the initial release in the newspaper due to being on business travel. I am, in my secular job, a manager at a law enforcement association. I soon pray that I will be a minister in my church. I have a Bachelor's of Science and Masters of Divinity. My wife and I are blessed to live in a prominent Virginia suburb. I know well, and first-hand what this speaks of. And, because of that, I would offer that to be a Black man is proud blessing in a cursed world. And thank God, I have been called by my God to be a Black man. Every day that we live is a blessing, and everyday that we are able to come home with some semblance of mind, dignity, and faith is a blessing from our Lord and a victory over all that would mock us. Not just what we do, but who we are. Our very being.

Thank you. I wait with an eager anticipation for your next article in this series.

I have bookmarked the web page and look forward to reading more. One topic I am curious to see if (and how) it is covered is how black men such as myself have to deal with members of our race (and others) when we marry outside of our race. Once again good article.

I just want to write that I thoroughly enjoyed the article and embrace all of these analysis of Black men in America. They are usually depressing, but its important to know what is going on with my brethern never the less.

This looks to be a wonderful positive and honest portrayal of black men in America - will there be a book, anthology, dvd or some other way to capture this information once it is complete? I teach an African American Culture Class and would love access to this for educational and personal purposes. Will you do other ethnic groups male portrayal as well??

Thank you so much for this series. I will be following this throughout the year and look forward to the articles.

I'm a daughter, wife and mother to African American males. There is nothing like an African American male. The strength, persona, communication style, interaction with family, drive and ambition. I love black men and I'm so proud of you for taking the bold step to let the world know how multifaceted you are. You really honor my father, husband and son. As a black woman I hear and feel the pain black men go through in spite of their "worldly success". People would like to think we live in a color blind world, but that just isn't the reality and I'm so glad you will be showing the world the issues your brothers face and just how wonderful our brothers are in spite of the issues they face or their station in life.

My dad is a retired teacher and a musician who writes music as well as sings with the Twin City Choristers in Winston-Salem, NC. My husband attended Virginia Union College where he played football, he joined the Marine Corps where he was a Scout Sniper and veteran of the Gulf War and he now works as a Letter Carrier for the Postal Service. My beautiful son is 5 years old and is so excited about life and learning and is told daily that there's absolutely nothing he can't do (of course he's a genius:)

My father and husband are awesome examples of great black men, and I respect and honor them and was taught that I should respect and honor them. Both of my grandfathers were family men, hard workers and active in their churches. My husband is an awesome man of God, wonderful provider, excellent father and the husband I prayed for. I come from a family that has strong black men and I've seen so many strong families headed by men, not just in my family, but many others. I'm so glad that these men will finally be affirmed.

I'm also glad that black men that are successful in their own right are reaching out to our young brothers that may not have fatherly guidance. These young men have such an issue with trusting other black men and I'm praying that the Lord will soften these brothers hearts to bring healing and unite them with other men who will stand in the gap for their absent fathers. I feel a shift for our young brothers and I'm excited about the opportunities for them with guidance from brothers like you and the men who are committed to seeing them succeed.

I have faith that the state of our communities will change when the state of our men changes. Our community has taken on values that are contrary to our success and wellbeing, and I'm prayerful that this series will bring us back to valuing the family (the foundation).

I have told everyone I know to read the series this year. Be blessed as you bless African American men this year. I feel a call going out to our black men. Please don't get discouraged during this series. You will always have people that are not happy with what you're doing, but please know that you are making a difference in the minds and hearts of people throughout the country.

Thank you so much and I'm keeping you in my prayers.

Much success!

Dear Washington Post:

What a wonderful topic to choose. As a New York City Police Officer, and as a Blackman myself, I too often wonder what the future holds for a Blackman in America. The random acts of violence, the senseless homicides and the rate of incarceration should alarm anyone that considers themselves Americans.Its articles like this, that makes me continue my pursuit of photojournalism.

Thank you and I look forward to reading your articles throughout the series.

As a black man that reads the Post religiously, I admire this
series. Rarely does the Post make a great effort to peer into the AA
sphere, and this is a great endeavor. I hope that you eventually put
this on a data cd or DVD that people can buy at a modest price or for
free so that they can use it for schools and youth groups (if so,
please be sure to add lesson plans for teachers at all 3 levels of
schooling).

I think I am going to find this series very interesting. I am African, and have never really identified with black Americans, because, frankly, I have had a very different experience growing up in a society offering very different cultural and family experiences and circumstances. This is not to say I have not faced racial discrimination here in the US both from whites and blacks. But I am reading your series with deep interest because I have a four-year old son who is growing up in this society and is already facing issues of race and exclusion. So while we his parents are at home teaching him that he can be/do anything he wants to be/do, he is being faced with subtle racial discrimination at his school. Sometimes, I wonder whether it is all just my imagination.

Anyhow, I look forward to reading the whole series. I want to understand what my son is bound to face, growing up black in America.

As an administrator in Northern Virginia, I find and experience the lack of affirmation for black males in every aspect of public education. This is the one area that we should place a lot of our energy for change. Problems experienced by young black males begin in school and lead to failure or the lack of success. There is a shortage of men in administrative positions in public education. Young black males need to see themselves meet with success at an early age. Public schools can provide that experience. A good wake up call for the area would be to see the number of black men that are principals in all of the school systems surrounding the D. C. Metropolitan area.

Next, black men need to view themselves in reference to the world, not only America. This could avail some opportunities that might not present itself in America. Outside of America we are view quite differently. We need to become part of the global movement, and again, this should start with education of our young men. Prior to being an administrator, I was a high school basket coach. Three young men that I coached are making a living playing basketball in outside the U.S..

The project is long overdue, and I admire your staff for letting the world know what we face everyday. America needs to take a look at herself. What happens to one group will eventually touch others.

being a black woman, I was intrigued by the feature. I just finished
reading the profiles and looking at the photos. Then I did the poll.
It was a fascinating experience. I have 3 brothers and they are all
very different. While we grew up poor, they are all successful in
their own way. I know that I was influence by their lives in the way
that I answered the questions. As far as the national poll data went I
was off as far as crime and responsibility responses. I will keep
going back and following the series. I am going to email it to one of
my brothers and another friend. Getting off to a great and interesting
start. Good luck and God bless.

My congratulations on an excellent series of videos online on black men. I
enjoyed them all -- the wonderful selection of interviewees, the questions
asked and answered, the production quality in how the videos were shot and
edited. This is one of your best series because you picked real people,
ordinary black men and not some idiots with no teeth or 4 children by 6
different women. This is a refreshing change! Thank you! Paula Matabane

The questions in my opinion are too nebulous, the percent polled will be thought as how all black men think and feel and that is all to wrong. There are too many mitigating factors to get a true synopsis of the true state of black men in this country. I for one have experienced a great deal in my 58 years and I do not believe that you will touch on the experiences of my life and the lives of my friends and relatives.

My husband and I, who are both African American attorneys who specialize in civil rights law with a praticular personal focus on issues of race, were ecstatic to see this level of attention now being paid to the dire issue of the plight of Black men in America by the Post. You are to be commended for tackling this very difficult subject, one which many may find uncompelling. It is great to see an issue of concern to Black America receiving treatment as an issue of concern to all of America. We look forward to the stories and articles to come.

This is a wonderful series. I couldn't wait to open up Sunday's Washington Post to read what black men have to say about themselves. Moreover, I'm interested in what this will produce in the future by way of other media enteties writing stories of a similar nature. A nice cap off to this would be a story on 20/20 or something of that nature. Thanks for doing this series!

Thumbs up on your project, "Being a Black Man." As a mother of three black young boys, I am all ears toward issues concerning black men. Fortunately, my boys are part of a strong patriarchal legacy. My husband, their father, is a well- educated, highly successful and spiritually grounded, beautiful black man. He has followed in the footsteps of his father and uncles, each of whom are successful and highly educated. My boys are destined for greatness regardless of their color. I think the experiences of the black male run the full spectrum and I commend you on addressing various perspectives.

IT IS WITHOUT QUESTION THAT WE AS BLACKMEN HAVE COME A MIGHTY LONG WAY; BUT THE STRUGGLE CONTINUES. WE MUST NOT ONLY DEAL WITH THE BLATENT DIREPECT OF RACISM BUT ALSO THE CLASSIZM THAT PERPETUATES OUR BROTHERS EVERYDAY ESP. EDUCATED BROTHERS VS NON-EDUCATED; SORT OF THE HAVES VS. THE HAVE NOTS. FREDERICK DOUGLAS SAID IT BEST:" WITHOUT STRUGGLE THERE IS NO PRGOGRESS" WE (BROTHERS) MUST CONTINUE TO STRIVE FOR EXCELLENCE IN EVERY WAY, BUT ALSO BE MINDFUL TO UPLIFT OUR YOUNGER BROTHERS IN ALL THAT WE DO AND ACHIEVE. "NO BROTHER LEFT BEHIND" SHOULD BE THE PREAMBLE FOR ALL OF US TO MODEL OURSELVES AFTER. STAY TRUE TO OURSELVES AND TO OUR HOMES AND COMMUNITIES. MUCH THANXS TO THE WASHINGTON POST FOR THIS GREAT SEGMENT AND TO CONTINUE WITH THE GREAT MUST READ ARTICLES CONCERNING MY AFRICAN AMERICAN BROTHERS.

This "project" is what I include in my label "Black Deja Vu."

good work

The following excerpt is from your article named:

"Poll Reveals a Contradictory Portrait Shaded With Promise and Doubt"
"But black women were not entirely sympathetic. More than half of black women said one big reason the average black woman is better-educated and makes more money than the average black man is that black women simply work harder."

The underlined statement is a falsehood in regards to income.

I would refer you to US Census data.

http://www.census.gov/hhes/income/histinc/p05b.html.

I hear everyone from my mother to every other angry Black Woman stating that they earn more than black men but the data does not piont in that direction. Will you please amend your article. Thank you.

I am a member of the National Organization of Concerned Black Men Inc.
Our National Headquarters in located in D.C. We are starting an
initiative called: Young Black Males Achievement Gap Initiative. It is
our goal to assist in the hoalistic approach with our young black males.
Their are several components to this issue. Schools, Family, Community
and the individuals themselves. We all have a part to play in the over
all success of our youth. Societies ills have plague our families and
communities for centuries. We as Afrikan Americans have bought into the
Amrican dream. Our dream to be free must start from within our selves.
We cannot depend on others to come up with answers for our situation, we
are the answer. We have enough professionals, in all fields of work to
help overcome any obstacle that comes before us. We must work together
to achieve success. Our youth very seldom see black men and women
working together towards a common goal. Leading by example is the
coined phrase that we preach to our youth. Until our young black men
see black men helping them, encouraging them, disciplining them and
loving them, they will continue to lack the knowledge and self esteem to
move forward.

In a series that purports to provide a balanced portrait of black men, why is it that the jailed population of black men, that represents a relatively significant proportion of total black population, are not given a voice in the results? Is this another form of imprisonment?

I would like to see a discussion of the contributions or the value of the black man in the popular culture (not just entertainment, but lifestyles, economics, and education) as it is defined today. More specifically an analysis of the industries that we contribute to the most. As well a conceptualization of what our culture would look like if so many of the black men were not in prison or dying at a young age. Also if you could spotlight a community that is working in the benefit of black men. Or perhaps spotlight the communities in which many of today's influential black men are coming from.

I must say that this series that you have put together is groundbreaking and I appreciate the approach that you have taken in putting this together. Kudos to the Washington Post and its editors for getting beneath the surface on a topic that much of the mass media is afraid to touch.

God Bless

Dear Washington Post,
First, I want to thank you for your series on Being a Black Man. Second, while I did not grow up in the D.C. area, this was the home of my maternal grandmother and I have cousins that have lived here for years. I was born and raised in New York City, but now live in Silver Spring, MD. I consider myself a successful black man who has achieved much with the help of God. Yet, there are times that I consider myself a failure for fully achieving what I love to do and that is sing professionally. I am current a Group Manager with BAE Systems, Inc. a Defense contractor leading and managing the work of 62 engineers of various disciplines.
How did I get to this position? I firmly believe that education, which Martin Luther King spoke so eloquently of, has helped me to achieve my goals. Of the six children in our family, I am the oldest. My ticket to getting out of a rat race in the Bronx was an education and military service. I chose as different path, one less traveled by most black men. I chose to serve in the U.S. Navy and be one of the handful of black submariners. I took the opportunity to see the world, both east and west and to criss-cross these United States. Along the way, there were trials and troubles, but I managed to overcome.
Since retiring in 1998, I have worked in business as a General Manager of a fast food restaurant, taught in South Carolina and traveled with my current company training sailors and civilians in submarine strategic weapons systems.
Out of all of this two things stand out. One, my youngest brother, who never graduated from high school, who had the same opportunities that I did, for years called me a "white boy" because I chose to go to college, serve in the military and earn an education. Second, black children whom I taught in South Carolina, always wondered why I "talked white". I never understood why some black men resented me for trying to get ahead that they would stoop to calling me "white boy" in a derogatory manner, or make fun of the way I speak. Yet some of those same black men were equally proud of the fact that I did not end up on the corner in front of the Hispanic owned grocery store sipping on a 40 ounce everyday, becoming an alcoholic like so many of our brothers do. I lost a brother to that corner store and those 40 ounce malt liquors five years ago. A sad ending to what could have been a beautiful life had he chose to take the opportunities handed to him.
More and more I see us black men, especially our younger brothers failing to capitalize on the opportunities presented. As a result, we have a lot of brothers unemployed and in jail. Just last week, when the news reported the crime wave on the National Mall, I commented to my wife, "I bet there going to say it was three black men committing the robberies". When the news reported it, my only comment to my wife was, "why do it always have to be three black men?"
I think your series is going in the right direction. We need this kind of dialogue among ourselves. Black people in America has had some much taken from them; our heritage, identities and even our spirits. We have contributed much to this nation in sweat, blood and tears. We deserved to be rewarded with the fruits of our labors.

Bravo! I think that you should publish a "coffee" table book of the series: Being a Black Man. As a young black woman, I see the lives of black men being painted as derelict portraits and rarely as dutiful. So far the series has presented a canvas of innovators, such as Chuck Brow, international leaders, such a Colin Powell and educators like Philip Brown. It is amazing to see the many faces and positive personalities of the black man. Still today, it seems that the only time you see a black man's name mentioned is as a contributor to history instead of as a maker of history for the generation to come. I am impressed by the pioneering efforts of telling the tale of black men... you should write a counter piece Being a Black Women!

I've been following this series since I first encountered a snippet on mnbc.
I admire the work done, in part because in my view this brings to light
some of the issues facing black men and - in general the black community as
a whole. I could only hope the program directors at Black Entertainment
Television will highlight this survey and engage in dialog which seek
solutions to what I believe is a fundamental issue with the black family.
You ask me, Bill Cosby is right. Most of these kids aren't raised well.

Sadly, one of the things that we as Caribbeans despise surrounds the fact
that we're lumped in with Black Americans. In my opinion it would help if
the survey differentiated between the two. In general we don't understand
their ( African Americans ) thought process and don't subscribe to a host of
their theories. It's a unwritten rule in the Caribbean community that we
stay away from African Americans.

You see as a software engineer for a defense contractor, I find it appaling
that all software engineers under age 35 are foreigners ( well immigrants
who became citizens ). Come to think of it, and if my recollection proves
correct. The vast majority of blacks at my former university were
foreigners. The African Americans were too busy hanging out at the
'student union', and for those athletes - preparing for football/basketball
games.

Excellent work. Kudos to the Washington post.

Dear Washington Post,

Your front page article caught my attention today as I am being kicked out of the house for dating a black man and am in the process of looking for a place to rent. I would very much appreciate any articles about interracial relationships. Please don't keep it to white and black relationships, as I am Korean (which I know is uncommon). Also, I would like to see articles about men who are partially black or about raising a mixed child.

I hope that at least one article in this series will focus on gay men. There may not be much in your poll to work from but I imagine there would be plenty of other sources and topics; personally, I recommend Keith Boykin's blog.

I will enjoy the series either way so please keep it coming.

I may stop reading the Washington Post for the remainder of the year since I'm tired of pity parties from black Americans. And you are "Americans" not "Africian-Americans". When was the last time a black brother or sister has set foot in Africa to get the "African-experience"?

If I had as many incentives as a middle-class white girl that a single black (unwed) mother or father receives, I'd be living the high life and not struggling. And yes, I have a college degree. Where in the hell has it gotten me? Now, if I was black with/or without children, I'd be actively recruited for jobs, internships, etc, etc. etc. The worst thing you can be in today's world is white and middle class. You will not get anywhere!

Please maintain an easy-to-access archive file of this series, so that if someone misses an issue or two they can retrieve them. Or, if someone has been living under a rock and don't find out about the series until well into it's existence, they can go back and read the whole series. It would also be helpful to know in advance when the next article is going to be published.

This is really important stuff. We are beginning a Black Youth Leadership program called the Young Lions. This series will be an important part of our curriculum.

You all are on to something really important! Asante.

Black men's behavior is changing and how it affects the mentality of our
younger black generation can be understood only by living within the
society.

Brothers are trapped in the struggle of making a living for themselves on
one hand and are trying to adopting the American lifestyle on the other.
They are lured in with the fast life culture while a stable family life is
being ignored. Trapped in disparities these brothers tend not to build
lasting relationships. Brothers put a lot of emphasis on sex and money.

I am troubled by this double standard way of life that we as Black men are
facing. What is being a Black man about? I believe the family is the key. I
view him as a leader in his household. Respected by his wife. A provider and
role model for his children. One problem is aparent; the breakdown of the
family structure. Brothers are indulging in sex outside of marriage which
leads to conflict. Premarital relationships give rise to a host of problems.
These affairs remain alive in their life and creates a cancer in their
personality. Some brothers view marriage as a burden, and they think that
they have a positive understanding of a family. This approach leads them to
living with women and having children outside of wedlock. For such
relationships, lives are entangle with lots of trouble. These relationships
do not have any commitment, devotion, and when there is a problem with each
other, the relationship becomes a burden leading to separation and a cause
for mental and financial distress.

It has taken many years for Black men to evolve from slavery, developing his
emotional and social needs to build relationships for his personal growth
and family. Physical relationship involves emotional bondage. This bond
without the sanctity of marriage will definitely be full of problems.
Marriage is not easy, but it is the foundation to a strong family unit that
produces strong fruit. If you take a look at the family structure over the
last 50 years you will find a direct link to this fact.

A marriage that work provides security and confidence to children. It has a
definite scientific value of stability, physical satisfaction and emotional
attachments. The Black family that embrace this concept will be more
productive and focus on their responsibilities. Life will take on a new
meaning and direction. Strongholds will be broken and the cycle of curses
will be erased.

To Washington Post Editors and Journalists:

I discovered your series on the Web while getting my daily news fix of all things Washington. Currently, I reside in
Phoenix, but grew up in the Washington area, lower Prince Georges County to be exact. I was completely fascinated
by your work in describing the black man's experience in America, although it is definitely limited in nature.

I'm a Black Man, mid-30's and I love it. As the James Brown Song, "Say it Loud, I am Black and I am Proud".
I grew up poor, but had a strong work ethic (also I had running talent) and was able to attend and graduate from the Virginia Military Institute, a very white, southern conservative school, probably one of the last schools in the country to integrate.
I love my alma-mater.

Also, I have been involved in interracial relationships and friendships, although I don't be hatin' on black women. I never had
these women many of whom I was the first black guy they were ever close to believe in the stereotypes.

Now, I bring this up because I strongly feel that the crippling racism that our parent has been replaced in a more subtle form; however, I feel black men need to "get of their butts" and hit the books and stop blaming others for their problems.

I have experienced racial slights, although, I make it a point to never let it go unanswered because I become extremely
"pissed" excuse the term if something ever think they are going to treat me differently because of the color of my skin.
However, I was able to achieve and be "successful and productive" whatever that means.

My words leave me when I attempt to describe the unbridled impact such a series will have, and I am guessing, is having on America.

Hopefully, every American will take this opportunity to understand: empathize and maybe even sympathize with black men. But most of all, I hope black men take it as a deeply personal opportunity to understand the reflection that mesmerizes and haunts us all on every one of God's mornings.

As a PROUD 51 year old Black Woman and mother that has had the honor and privilege to participate in raising of a Honest, Hard Working, Lawful, and Prayerful 24 year old Black Man, let me add a couple of comments to the questions that are being raised?

The education of a black male starts as soon as he is born into this world. You know the old school ways like saying please and thank -you, excuse me, addressing adults as Mr. & Mrs. communicating with your child. As a single mother his father was murdered when he was 6 years old. I knew that I had to make sure he not only knows who he is, but what is expected of him as he goes through this life. I introduced him to our rich culture from the age of 2 when he started kindergarten his teachers could not believe that he could parts words together to make complete sentences. We also talked about different situations that will occur growing up a black man in America. I also knew that I needed to get my son in front of as many positive black men as I could, so I put him in a Rites of Passage program through the local chapter of the Black United Front in Kansas City, Mo. My 24 year old son has started 2 businesses and planning a 3rd he and his partners have 21 part time employees. They provide consulting work for night club owners and also provide unarmed security. I won't go into any more detail about his business.

Gentlemen,
Thank you for a very enjoyable and thought-provoking article. But I would suggest that your UCLA political scientist who did the "mock newscast" to prove how racist our society's perceptions of black men are, to watch a REAL newscast from the past few days - what would we have seen, for the major stories,in the area of crime?
1)The Indiana black man who robbed and murdered a family of 7 in cold blood.
2)In Maryland, a sentence of 7 life sentences given to a black man who went on a killing spree 4 years ago, with his young balck accomplice.
3)Two black men,one who is in for mureder,escaping from DC jail
4) A black man sentenced to life for trying to kill his wife in a horrific way- burning her to death by throwing gasoline on her face and lighting it.

I could go on, but you get the point- sometimes perceptions have a very real reason for their existence, and it is not based on ignorance or racism.

I can not say enough about this series it is like a God-send. I am requiring that my 15-year old son read each article and turn in a write-up to me on each one. I was a teenage mother by the age of 18. By the age of 25 I was unwed and the mother of two young children. Along came my husband, we now have four children and he loves them all just as if they were his (we don't live by the step-parent thing). He is a very hard working man and he does so to provide for his family.

I may not like all of the things that my brothers do (and I don't). But lawd'knows that I love em :). Thank you again for putting the spotlight on the them. I know that in taking on a project of this magnitude comes a lot of kudos along with criticism and maybe a little bit of second guessing. But I truly believe that this series has a greater purpose than you realize -- many will benefit from you labor. Be encouraged.

This is a very difficult subject to convey across many groups of viewers/readers.

To be frank, what jumped out were two things: 1) when the young man said, "Women love us, all kinds." I have noticed this. Black men are very romantic and this appeals to women. 2) the physicians who said: "Black men are human" and that they live out their lives like everybody else. While this is very obvious, stereotyping glosses over this most important point.

Based on the history and culture that Black men have endured/experienced, they are doing well under the circumstances. But most important to remember, people are different. The strong will survive no matter what, others can be very influenced by the negative aspects, like racism, and become beaten down. It takes individual responsibility, but it also takes removing structural impediments that put barriers in people's way, preventing them from realizing their potentials.

Most of us are so vulnerable to stereotyping, so showing different types is important. We need to do the same thing showing White males and not stereotyping here too, i.e., showing the worst, the best and those in the middle. The only thing, they don't have race bias to contend with.

"Black women," she said, are "less threatening than black men."

Did you read the next article in Being a Black Man????
Just read it and Ive always felt like this and Ive seen and witnessed black women getting treated differently from an early age.
Its like this for me, boys and girls are socialized differently, girls no matter what race or background are always told to sit still, behave and act like a lady. Boys are not socailized like that, they are told to be aggressive, play with war toys and act out. So when a different culutre or cultural system (schools) intereacts with these boys they are afraid of them because they are aggressive and of another culture, they are all of a sudden, "un-cooperative" "unable to learn" "slow" and a whole bunch of other negative connotations.
As these boys get older the fear with inside another culture or insitution deepens. Ive been in many classrooms with all middle class black kids and see the teacher be afraid to teach which just makes a bunch of teenages use that to their advantage whenever they see the authority figure as weak. So the teachers dont teach them and jsut pass them along because they are too afraid to get to know them they just label them as troublemakers.

American insitutions are afraid of black men and they have systematically put black men in positions to fail (I say positions because every man has a choice, just because they are given negative conditions doesnt mean he has to live down to those conditions)

America fears change. Blackmen are going to bring change no matter what we do because we are from another culture an value system and they fear that. Black leadership is frightening to them because they are afraid of black men leading the masses into their power structure inflicting change they dont want to see happen.

Try writing a feature on being a White man in today's America next. The first amendment, Freedom of Speech, is limited and always being scrutinized. Zero benefits when creating a small business for a white man. Constantly being bashed year after year, decade after decade on TV, in newspapers, and in public which in today's world seems to be ok but bash another race and we are raciest. Using a great word for its meaning correctly towards a white man is taboo but it's ok to be an n-word among black friends. Have to put up with hatred towards us when we haven't done anything to deserve it except for being born white. To have a club, group, class, or bar with just white people is being a raciest group but having the NAACP is ok. I wish I had a deck of white cards that I could play each time I found myself in a legal or verbal jam. Being poor doesn't discriminate, you are just poor regardless of race. A black man not doing well in a business is just a man not good in business. We are all American's and the only country that fights over race and not religion. This 'oh I'm a poor poor black man not getting a fair deal' type of favoritism has become really old in today's America especially since we have an enemy that wants to kill all of us not because of color but we are Americans, period. God Bless our Troops, all of THEM!

Please explain to your readers the basis for the remark in the Sunday, 4 June 06 feature to the effect that 'trends suggest a third of black males born today will spend time in prison.'

This is a devastating charge and one that deserves more than the casual, offhand treatment it is given in your article. I mean, think about it. Based on what you report as fact it would be entirely reasonable and rational for Americans of all races to shun young black males because one out of three of them is bound to be a criminal.

You either need to provide substantiation for this charge or have the decency to repudiate it.

dear washpost------------as a motivational speaker who is blessed to have spoken at over 3oo colleges and universities nationwide-------i was extremely impressed with the being a black man project--------for over 30 years i have attended and spoken at numerous conferences on the state of blackmen in america---------the blackman is a genius----he is the father of civilization---malcolm,garvey,elijah muhammad,paulrobeson,min farrakhan,jessejackson ,drking,barry gordy,marvin gaye,muhammad ali,johnhope franklin,al sharpton,web dubois,among thousands of other great blackmen were sent to lift up the blackman--------the future of black men is great for those who believe--------the black womans rise and the black womans co-operation and respect for black men will be the fire needed to reignite the power ,beuty and magic of the black family-----------until the senseless violence-----------and 24 hr nonstop need for sex ,drugs and profanity is erased,reduced and checked-------the black man will be unable to make progress any where----black male preachers must step out of their holiness and comfort zones and become militant activists-------and allow their churches to used as re-education centers to save black men--------the worship of cars ,money,and materialism is destroying the image of black men------we need a council of elders in every neighbor hood to give wisdom,guidance and direction to young black men--------i applaud the wash post and it's writers for a powerful,brilliant series-----------kudos to minister louis farrakhan for setting the stage for the ressurection of the black man -------whether he wants to rise,succeed,excel,achieve,overcome or not-------the black man has to get up ,clean up and stand up and grow up if he is ever to command the respect ,honor and admiration of his children and brothers all across the planet earth

I'm a white male. I remember growing up on the east coast and in my young years seeing a magazine cover with a black man being roasted alive over a fire tied to a spit. There were several white racists standing around; being interviewed. I believe it was the cover of Life Magazine. We've come a long way since that terrible moment. But until we have reached the point where we don't think about starting with the statement: I'm a white male in response to an project entitled: Being a Black Man --- we have not come far enough.

This series is extremely relevant today in discussions in homes, churches, community and political groups. There is a range of experiences and perspectives portrayed but the bottom line is at some point, you have to make the decision to do what you have to do in order to be what you want to be.
This can happen with support, spiritual strength and keeping your "eyes on the prize". It would have also been nice to have videos on each of those featured, especially the young man from Oxon Hill. I would also agree with the gentleman who said perspectives may be different for first generation immigrants, depending on the circumstances that brought them here and the time period in which they came and Black men whose have a longer generational history being in this country. However, I think it is time to applaud all Black men who understand and can relate to the historical struggles for equity here in America and keep on lving life as best they can.

Excellent, well timed, and definitely needed seried! Please continue to produce pieces that shine a light on significant social issues.

Thanks Washington Post for recognizes us. As a black man living in the District for nearly 5 years, I encountered more self-hatred, discrimination, Jim Crowism, Willie Lynchism not only from Caucasians and Asians but from OUR kind. I love myself and my race but it appears that we don't share enough information and love due to fear of change in society. There are times which a black man have to commit a homicide and/or suicide to validate their pain and frustration. Then our stories are finally told.

I applaud the Washington Post for exceeding the odds of publishing the "good news" of Black men. Most times we find an article it is the negative instead of the positive....Great article....I will share this with the many youths at my church and email this to my community pastors and mentoring programs. Being the single mother of a young black male, I truly enjoyed this article.

I am very skeptical about the the merits of this "project"

We black (I prefer African-American as my reality is international in scope) men are not some sound bite to be neatly packaged into a few generalized statements.

We are diverse, complex individuals who are part of a non-homogeneous fabric just like the rest of humanity.

My race is not my destiny as I am master of my universe. This project fails to showcase this important reality.

"The night is beautiful, So the faces of my people. The stars are beautiful, So the eyes of my people. Beautiful, also is the sun. Beautiful, also, are the souls of my people."
- My people- By: Langston Hughes

My people, my people, my people, as a young man escaping the unknown realities of teenage naiveness I am no longer blindfolded by the few that are in the "know".

"Being a Black Man"- a series that not only will explore the present but I look forward to this piece of art work discussing the resolutions and cures as well. Thank you- we are our Brother's Keeper, regardless of skin color, our blood is the same color.

Thank you for writing this story. It is important that the plight of Black people be at the forefront of society and news. And the positive aspects need to be shown more often than most. We are under attack, Black people in general and Black men in particular. Black people, their struggles and successes need to be discussed all the times. Then and only then can we address the issues improve them. Knowledge is power!

I love that the Washington Post took the initiative to explore a subject as controversial and complex as the plight of Black men in America. As a Black woman, I really appreciate the chance to learn more about my male counterparts--straight from their mouths. Simply put, I just wanted to say thank you.

Thank you for the article. I wish I knew what if anything I could say, or do, to wake-up and shake-up Black America. As a Black Woman in Washington, DC, I am oftentime appalled at how we as Black Americans treat one another. Everything bad, or negative that happens to us, is not ALWAYS from the hand of a White person! We, Black America - have become out-of-control. Our attitudes, STINK. Our language is UNFATHOMABLE. Everything that our 'forefathers' fought for, everyone younger than 30, care nothing at all about. We know more about the personal business of entertainers, than we do about how to get our children to school on time..We know how to manipulate the system to our own advantage, yet, when things don't go "our" way - it is always someone else' fault!! WHY?? How many young blacks know that it was only in 1965 that we were "given" the right to vote, yet we built this country? How many BAmericans know every 'stat' of their fav Ball player? I say that because all of Black America was upset when Bill Cosby spoke out - BUT, HE was 1000% correct. I am a Mother and GrandMother of 6. What the hell happened to us?? Sometimes, I am hurt and ashamed. This is not the way it should BE!!
The sad thing is, the Parents refuse to take responsibility..WAKE-UP BLACK AMERICA..Prove them wrong!!

I am a woman and still, I have no ill feelings towards this series, which focuses on men---black men. I find it strange that some have responded with a "what about ME!!!" mentality. I applaud the post/the staff for having the courage to do this series and to do this at this time.

What is especially heart warming for me is that the series looks at black men of different social-economic statuses. Some are homeless, some are working class, some are middle class...but at least through this venue, they have all been given a voice! A voice that I believe white men and white women may have taken for granted---a powerful voice that is used everyday to disseminate certain messages (negative/positive? intentional/unintentional?) about themselves, black people, brown people, etc. "far and wide."
Furthermore, I can easily see what it means to be a white man (or woman) in America. Americans are surrounded with this message everywhere we go---even in our own living rooms. Yes, I can reverberate back to any white person how to care for their hair, what they watch on t.v. regularly, what products are best for their skin, what teaching methods are best their kids, what they consider beautiful...
HOWEVER, I do not think that white people are affording the same opportunity to get to know real black people---real black men. I appreciate this opportunity and will take advantage of it. Thank you.

This validates what much of us already know. People wonder why black men have a higher risk of heart problems or stress related health issues that ultimately shorten our lives. I'm also hunted with images of the police pulling me over only to find that I'm a legit citizen that happen to be black and yet to get caught up in the system due to their lack of entrapment.. When they see I'm clean they seem disappointed and frustrated. I've had to assimilate myself or act as "white" as possible in interviews so I could have a slightly better chance at getting the job.. I've had to change my first name when applying because it sounds "too black".

G. BUTLER, several post below says, "to stop blaming everyone else". My response to this it is simple.. When America was being cultivated into an emerging world economic power my people were held back form the race to open Grocery stores, restaurant chains, small cities and community and I don't mean the projects that were built to again enslave a people from achieving what most white America from the beginning have had access to.. Now more importantly should you not rant and rave about the complaints of racism but watch out for Classism.. Soon enough will most of our pale brothers feel the pain of economic turmoil in the near future.. Thanks for the opportunity to be heard..
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I think in a city known as "chocolate city" that is was a wonderful idea to look into what makes up that name. I have forwarded the articles to various men I know around the country (NY

I think in a city known as "chocolate city" that is was a wonderful idea to look into what makes up that name. I have forwarded the articles to various men I know around the country (NY, PA, VA, IL, FL,TX, CA) to get their feed back on it and for the most part, the men have felt that the articles have proven to be true. There are some slight variations of course,but so far they, like myself are intrigued, fascinated, honored and pleased to see them be the focus of something intelligent and honorable and enlightening.

I would like to see a new project ask quesitons that explore the future for Black men in America. Survey Questions should be answered by all races -- Why are White people afraid of Black Men? Why are Music Videos so disrespectful of young Black Women? What makes young Black men place small importance on a good education? What makes younger Black women want to avoid marriage to Black men?

I think the Washinhton Post has taken on a project that is long overdue. I've read a number of the submissions posted here, both negative and positive.
First I want to say that a successful Black man I've never used the race card, however I know that we as African American men, as well as women, we have to work harder thatn our conterparts to get ahead. I grew up in the inner city of Newark, New Jersey, had a job as a dishwasher but realized early that I did not want to that job all my life. In 1980 I enlisted in the Navy, transferred to the Fleet Reserve in 2000, and then acqired a job in workforce development- teaching the Navy.
The negative attributes of African American men is so often capitalized on, that the positive attributes are often overshadowed and become absent from our daily thought. The few of us African American men who chose to be different, and rise above the negative attributes that we are so often characterized with, carry not only the burden of hopes that will be judged and respected for our content of character and not our exterior, but also the burden of hopes that our sons will grow up and emulate the character that we possess.
This project should not be viewed a slap in the face to African American women, but an opportunity to explore, evaluate, and understand what African American men want from our women. While there are some men that disrespect women, the situation is vice versa. There are some African American women who lack respect Black men. First and formost we as Black men and women must find a common ground, possess and maintain a mutual respect for each other.
I read a post that unless we're in a suit and tie we're overlooked. While there are visible successful Black men in the corporate world, we must not forget those African American men in uniform, providing the blanket of freedom that we so justly benefit from on a daily They're holding positions of Commanding General, Commanding Officer, Fleet Force Master Chief. They have become an indispensible link in the leadership chain from the lowest level to the general staff.
I look forward to other articles in this series.

I know all about being a black man. What Id like to know is how to how to attain the milk and honey of being just an American. When I do well, Im a credit to my race. When I screw up, Im all over the news and the status quo. Id just like to be me. American.....Free.....

Oh yeah, currently Im a credit to my race.

The project is a good one, and very much-needed. We're always bombarded with negative images of black men. No one has really focused on their other images. And of course there are some. Your series is showing black men with a variety of educational backgrounds, in a variety of situations, all talking about their their own experience. One thing I liked is that your respondents seem to know that they themselves have to step up and make changes for themselves. Young black men especially need to do this. They've got to let that negative peer pressure go and do something meaningful. They could have a good future if they would just do that. The opportunities are out there. They can start by reading The Pact.

The Post's project to explore "Being a Black Man" is a demanding and difficult endeavor. The role of the Black Man in American society is fraught with so many at once conflicting, paradoxical perceptions, more than perhaps any other single culture, that even white America has difficult sorting out its reactions. I only hope that at some point in this project, the Post asks about the regard of Black Men for Black Women and the impact this might have on the perception of Black Men by other cultures.

I concur with the moral issues that is beingimplemented in the article, but it always seem that we tend to tread this road call life, without any acknowledgement of God. You see, I still believe that man can do an accomplish a lot of things, but it really does not matter if God is not in it. We may be taking life for granted and depending upon our own things that we are lead to believe came from our in-depth abilities, but it is only by the grace of God that "For in Him we live, and move, and have our being; (Acts 17:28)

Whoa,
I must say an opporunity to take part in this exact affair is exiciting, challenging, yet vital. As a Black Men 21 in school this fall for 4 years studying Social Work, I recommend this Nation undergoing a change. Black men need first strong families. Families built on Core and Fundamental Vaules. Those inspired by the Protestant, Catholic, and Anglo-Saxon cultures are fine. Vaules rather different in style, history, and expression are also fine. This country's Freedom, politics, economics, and social well-being are all vital components to the success of this discussion and future intervention into the Black Man's life, in hope of saving him from what seems to be despair, poverty, and igorance due to the lack of Higher Education. Our Nation's history is both telling and complex. We have freed slaves arguably the last straw to break the camels back leading to a civil war. Alongside the change in lifestyles as we moved from an argicultural to a industrial society. Not to forget the Civil Rights Movement were Dr. Martin Luther King was murder before he could gather up the country's poor and March on down to Capital Hill. For What? Certainly to demand justice, freedom and equality some almost 50 years ago. There is the complexity. So we have strived and still we are faced with grave dangers. Black men are citizens of the United States first. Black men are strong. They can be broken. History has proven this and however silly, demonic, and truthfull it may sound it is still evident that The Black Race has yet to achieve. By whom standards young man? I am not sure it is very much under the surface hidden maybe closer to institutionalized Racial and Discriminatory practices/realities.
The Black Man can also rise, as Thurgoos Marshall, Gen. Colin Powell, and Mr. Kanye West. Charmingly and Greatfully may I note that each of these Men have Oprah Winfrey's in there Black Women first to support them. They have them to seek encouragement to bear there children granted to them by God here on this Earth rightfully and righetously so.
Black Men being Gay and having the right to be recongized as a couple with the same rights as Husband and Wife is at best complexed. It will remind everybody of a struggle eventually erroded away by our progressive way of life in depending on liberty, and the pursuit of happiness ensured to all of us in our founding documents. However, it is very serious and probably most damging to the elderly and the children our roadmaps to our productive and successful future as a Nation. To allow Gay to be reconigzed as they are now demanding will tear mainstream traditional values and maybe and nature out the door. It will result in choas or just mayhem but some weighty disagreements and scaring psychological effects on the children. Not mentioning that I am gay and should have a right as my heterosexual counter part but the children are going to be expected to accept and change after being socialized into the norm. This is a very important time for our Nation at all it's fronts: Education and Recovery for the Black Man, Terrorism, and Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness. We must as a Nation come together assess our crap develop a plan of action implement this plan and as we work to restore or state of social welfare and well- being in our Nation we will be free world leadrs headed or the stars and beyond.

The Post has taken a bold initiative to run these series and i applaud you for doing that. As a start again, hopefully we (blackmen around the world) will be heard by America.

It is my personal belief that the series although somewhat truncated is grabbing at the core of Black American Males. Being from the South(Texas in particular) we have the misfortune of not necessrily being exposed to forums such as this one. I love the fact questions are being offered in a study which makes us think from teens to seniors as Blacks/African Americans. It's vastly needed and oh how I wish we could truly find beyond measure the true meaning of being black not just a black man. I applaud this study and Pray it will induce a wave affect in the minds of many a human being living in this country.

I am Black man with a Degree and I own my own business. I am also a Reservist in the U.S. Army Reserves who has been activated to the great country of Iraq. I would like to share my veiw on you story. I think it was very accurate and timely. Many people play down the race issue and blame the Black Man for his own recourse. I sympathized with many and agreed with most in your interviews. Being from Mississippi the perception from the masses is that we are all still living in the 1960's. We have progressed over the years and should hold society for some of our failures. Being Black has taught me several things in life. First I am a man. I am just as smart as any man in our society. I will compete against any man in our society and I am equal to every man in our society. Being Black has helped me keep driving forward. It was too easy to stop and take the easy road out. Yes, I have had to work harder than my counterparts in some areas in my life and other parts of life came naturally. Being in the military has shone me that people with a lack of education still have that White Man/black boy mentality. I disfuse them with my broad range of education. The numbers in your article speak for themselves and seems acurate for the Black Man in our society. Who is to blame? I don't know. All I know is I don't follow the trends that lead nowhere and no man will stop me. I know to give 110 percent in anything I do. It is a good tome to be Black in America only if you are willing to contribute to the society to prove those numbers wrong. I do ask those who are not contributing to wake up and pull your load.

Benny Hubbard, LUTCF

I think it is a great project. Far too long society has neglected the race question. The American soiety should be a big melting pot and race be inclusive. It is not of course so, your article is written in a timely manner and the project should be a wake up call not only to the Black Man, but to our society as well. Our society promotes equality of all men and we fight for equality of others in foriegn countries, we just do not live by our own creed. I am a Black Man that don't look at the typical sterotype of what the American Society say I should be. I don't sit around and blame society and I definetly don't take what hand society deals me. There were several subjects discussed in this project. It is a wake up call for the American Society as well as the Black Man. I have the same dreams as most in that I want a quality education, a productive family, an award winning career, and the respect of a man. I demand nonthing else. The article I hope is not taken negatively. It is not meant to be that way in my eyes. It show that we the Black men in America have a lot of opportunities for success. It is strictly up to us. We don't need to blame no one for failure but us. We have to use any anger to make things better in our pursuit of happeness and justice. I feel only then, when the American society see us stand up and demand equality across the board, they will recognize and uderstand the Black Man. I support this project tremendously. I hpoe our society make a change for the best and the Black Man stands and appreciate what opportunity that God has given us. I thank the Washington Post and The Stars and Stripes for re-publishing this story for all the Troops and myself in IRAQ.

I think this is an interesting project. When I read that black men as a group are diversed in their points of view and outlook this peaks my interests. I think each generation of black men think differently and each age group should be discussed seperately. I think people act base on their self interest, programming and generally respond to their environment the best way the know how. Blackmen are a set of individuals who due to a need to be classified by the lager society are being place together into a common group that I don't feel exist.

I think you are being racist,,unless you intend to have similar projects, "being a white man", "being a hispanic/latino man", "being an asian man". Being a white man is harder today then it is being black, because everyone goes out of there way to not discriminate against the black man, that the white man is the one being discriminated against now. This goes for the white woman as well.

How do we explain the current reality of the black man? The issues that plague the black man are complicated and intertwined with one another. Is it racism? broken homes? poverty? lack of respect? drugs? laziness? government? The problem is not just one of these things but all of these things. Using the white priveledge as a crunch provides an easy excuse for the perception of downfall for black men. Sure a black man may have to work two, three or even four times harder than his white counterpart but it's been accomplished by many so it's not impossible. Sure growing up without a strong father in the home is a hinderance but again many have achieved success in spite of the absence. I could go on and on but the bottom line is this, we as black men need to take responsibilty for our own actions and for the actions of those that we are responsible for. Life is not supposed to be easy. The challenge and honor of being a black man should be accepted with pride and a sense of entitlement. Overcoming the obstacles that face us should instill self confidence and glory. I am a black man and I wouldn't change that for the world. Thank you.

Great project, i've shared with my son and can't wait for the future articles. Growing up in this city I can attest to the different views of my fellow Black Brothers and at one time in my life was struggling to find my place in society as well.

I AM AN ATLANTA PERSON AND I AM SURE I GOT INTO THIS LATE AS I HAVE THE POST BOOKMARKED IN MY BROWSER AS WELL AS NEWS MEDIA WORLDWISE SO IN MY SURFING IT TAKES A WHILE TO GET TO ALL,BUT I WAS WELL TAKEN BY THIS ENTRY,HAVING GROWN UP ON THE EASTERN SHORE PEOPLE I KNEW WELL CONSIDERED THE POST AS HARD CORE RIGHT AND BIASED ;SO AS I READ THIS ARTICLE I WAS INSPIRED TO PARTICIPATE. I AM A JAZZ MUSICIAN UNKNOWN BUT TO MY LOCAL FANS, I DO HAVE A SMALL PART IN THE MOTION PICTURE {THE FIGHTING TEMPTATIONS}I PLAY HARMONICA IN THE BARBERSHOP WITH THE O,JAY,S AND I HAVE TAUGHT MYSELF TO PLAY AT LEAST 12 INSTRUMENTS, AND I NEVER EVER BLAME OTHER RACES FOR MY UNDEVELOPED TALENTS,AND I ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT IF I GET ENOUGH TIME FOR PRACTICE I COULD DO ANYTHING ANYBODY ELSE COULD DO ,WHY NOT?IF I THINK OF AN ADVANTAGE AS AN ADVERSITY IS IT NOT DOOMED TO FAILURE?I BELIEVE THAT MOST YOUNG BLACK MEN HAVE NOT BEEN STRUCTURED IN WHAT IS AN ADVANTAGE OR HOW TO RECOGNIZE EITHER,I BELIEVE FAMILY STRUCTURE HAS A LOT TO DO WITH IT,FORTUNATELY I HAD MY MOM AND DAD TILL THEY WENT HOME.

I am a mother of 2 African-American sons,and grandmother of 2grandsons (18 & 15). I found the articles very,infomative and shared it with many others. Thank you for this series.

I commend the Washington Post on this series, because it is very thorough and your team used various sources to generate the information. I specifically enjoyed the testimonials, because they authenticate the series; therefore, driving the message home to your readers.

I will definitely subscribe to the Washington Post because as a black woman raising a young black man, this is information that pertains to me, as well.

Kudos to your team.

Only one question: Are your writers African-American?

This is a worthwhile study regarding the status of Black Men in America, Albeit nothing has significiantly changed regarding the negative attitude that is seen in young African American males since the seventies, I am hoping that somewhere, before I die, we'll see Black people taking charge of their lives.

"Being a Black Man" was an interesting project and it was groundbreaking on many fronts. The problem I have is with the Poll and how the Poll was constructed. I am a Social Scientist with multiple, advanced social science degrees and I could not for the life of me see why it was necessary to include White Males, White Females or Black Females in a scientific survey of Black Males. The only group experience of Black Males in this country is put upon the shoulders of Black Males. I fail to see how a privileged White Female could understand even 15 minutes of what it means to be Black and Male in this country. If I constructed a survey of the problems of Fortune 100 companies, I would be hard pressed to explain why I included small businesses, non-profits and state governments in my sample group. Given the large number(over 400) of Black Males in the sample group, I would prefer to see there part of the survey set as its own poll. Then and only then would we see the extent of the "mobilization of bias" that exists in the United States of America against Black Males.

David A. Scott

Columbus, Ohio - "The Home of Racial Profiling In The United States of America"

It pains me, as an African American man, that my one point of contention with the otherwise insightful article that appeared on th the front page of the Post on June 6 is with a quote by the venerable Hugh Price. Mr. Price maintains that "this country is filled with highly successful black men who are leading balanced, stable, productive lives working all over the labor market," a point with which I certainly agree. However, he goes on to cite "stringing fiber-optic cable" and "working the floor at Home Depot" as examples of the work being done by these ostensibly "highly successful" black men.

Clearly, there's no shame in stringing cable, or in working retail, and hopefully individuals in these positions earn a decent living wage. But I'd wager a good deal of my own earnings that there's no other population in America for which these particular jobs would be accepted as a metric for having achieved a high level of success. Sadly, in his comment Mr. Price undermines the notion that the American dream is attainable for young black men. No young black man--no young person--would be inspired, much less motivated, by such middling goals.

I strongly believe that a key factor in my own ability to achieve my goals squarely rests with my parents's refusal to accept less than excellence from me when I was gorwing up, whether in school or in my extracurricular activities. Our leaders of the past, from Frederick Douglass forward, similarly emhasized the importance of education, and of excellence, as the key to African American progress. Let's not undermine the potential of our young black men to excel and transcend the stereotypes we've so clearly internalized about ourselves as black men - let's set goals for them that can inspire and motvate them to succeed.

Please could someone write on the experience of being a Dark black man!

The articles are well written I must admit, and they explained situation that are difficult to put in words, even verbally much less written. I will develop my experience as a DARK black man but it will take me more time to develop than those writers that have so far contributed to this cause. I am a very disappointed black male when it comes to our leadership (meaning black leadership). I've suffered more living among blacks than any other race on the face of this earth and I would hope that someone addresses the discriminatory treatment that Dark blacks receive within their own race. Regards,

George F. D. Kingston

I find the article and the on-going project interesting overall, but also slanted. Sometimes polls get good information on the questions they ask, as is true for this project, however there is far more gray area on the topic of black men than what has shown up. For example, are we black men dispproportionately incarcerated because we are criminally minded, lack restraint, lack positive opportunities in their neighborhoods, or racism? What are the factors affecting our drop out rate? What prevents our success rate from improving? I can ask a million more questions. Yet for the Post, this is a start.

Although I do commend you on your efforts to define the make-up of a Black Man, I really do not think that much was revealed which can be used to develop a strategy that will embellish our existence. Some people react towards getting needed attention with smiles and admiration. However, when that attention does not delve into substance of the issues, the effort only produces superfluous results. I am impressed over the notion of directing resources towards identifying the issues; I am not impressed over the dearth reasons given to substantiate those issues. I do note that you plan to continue and am hopeful that more effort will be give towards examining the reasons why significant statistical deviations exist. In other words, tell us something that we do not know. Tell us how for instance, the women's movement has affected the Black Man. Tell us why Black men have become oblivions to the notion of brotherhood. Tell us why Black men are more inclined to be charged, convicted and sentenced for alleged crimes that are equally conducted by others. Tell us why Black men are not spending as much time with their children. Tell us why Black Men with degrees are less likely to get that job than a White male with a criminal record; no it goes beyond one degree of racism. Tell us why a Black Man with a degree puts more emphasis on education when education alone has not strengthened our economic condition. And please, tell us who and why these Black men state that justice is blind. Get my drift?

As a Black Profession Female, my views on "Being a Black Man" should mean being proud and standing up for what you honestly believe in. If a Black Man continues to use racism for being held back or as a issue for not being employed than there should be other methods to rise above and continue on, as they say if one door closes another will open. I hear all the time about the White Man will not give "US" anything. We should not want hand outs, we have been around long enough to see "We" have to earn what we get. If we do not want higher learning than what do we expect especially in the work place. I have grown sons who I have talked to from day one about education and not letting negativity get in the way of your realistic dreams and goals. They have familes and know what it takes to provide as a role model and productive male. Racism to me is a scape goat for not getting what we want if we don't work for it. Why did so many Strong Black Men die for us, to get us where we are today if we won't continue the struggle and fight to exist honestly and productively. Why are we complaining, no one can keep "US" down if we don't let them. If you can't go around the mountain, go over it. A littel sweat never hurt anyone.

I think that is great.
It brings a "balanced" yet honest look at Black Men.
I would like to see focus on those insitution of learning and devleopment for black men, like the barbershop, that seem to be missing.
I think the articcle should have survied black men in prisons and jails since many balck men are incarserated. This would give some data on what went wrong for them, in there words.

Finally, thanks for shine the light on all of us who have "done the right thing".

I think the answer(s) to a couple of these questions are "dependent" upon where a black man is (maturity level) in his life. An "event" could definitely change the direction your life might take and your age and maturity will be significant in how you are able to move forward from that point in time. I also believe that a person's history (up-bringing), how they were raised and by whom, has the most influential effect on how they cope with the challenges of the life they have. It's been said we have to pay taxes and die, if nothing else...I say, and have heard others say...there's only ONE thing we have to do while we are above ground on this earth...MAKE CHOICES! If we're dead, we don't have to do anything. Our lives, regardless of how we think they are or should be, are for praising God for our being and making choices that keep us in His favor. His favor is each of us being a blessing for the other...love thy neighbor as thyself.

I think White America should be asked, " Why are you afraid of Black Men being successful?"