A Caron Butler Surprise
Anthony Fadel had met Caron Butler once before. The Centreville High sophomore had a friend whose cousin lives two doors down from the Butlers, and they stopped by once and rang the doorbell. Caron's wife came to the door.
"We didn't know what to say," Anthony told me. "We were just like, 'Is Caron there?' She was like, 'One second'."
Then Caron came out to chat. So understandably, Anthony has been partial to Butler, and he told his mom how cool it would be to have Caron over one day to hang out and play some basketball. So when his mom was planning Anthony's surprise 16th birthday party, she had her 13-year-old daughter Kristen drop off an invitation at the Butler home.
"I wasn't going to go myself; the little girl can always get away with it," Anthony's mom, Marie, told me with a laugh.
The invite said the Fadels would hold the surprise party any day in the month of May, if Caron were willing to come, even if just for five minutes. They never heard back from him. A week later they went back with another invite, and he came to the door and said maybe. They never heard back from him.

Just your typical NBA-themed birthday party. (Courtesy Fadel family)
So the party planning went on. On the day of the surprise, May 12, Anthony's dad took him out to the driving range. About a dozen friends came over and waited in the basement.
"And then I see a black Range Rover coming up my driveway," Marie told me. "I looked out and I said 'Oh my God, Caron Butler is here."
She went into the basement and told Anthony's friends who had arrived. They thought it was some sort of code word or nickname for Anthony.
"I said 'No no, Caron Butler, from the Wizards, the real one'," Marie told me.
So Caron came inside, and asked what she needed him to do.
"I said 'It's a surprise party, everyone's in the basement'," Marie recalled, and so Caron Butler went down into the basement to watch the NBA playoffs with a bunch of high school sophomores who were waiting to surprise their buddy. About 10 minutes later, Anthony arrived home, with his dad.

Caron is the one on the far right. (Courtesy Fadel family)
"We just went downstairs, opened the door to the basement, and Caron Butler's just over there chilling with my friends," Anthony told me. "I couldn't say anything. I was just shocked."
So the birthday party carried on. They all sat in the basement and watched the second half of Cavs-Nets, Game 3. The Fadels offered Caron food; Anthony told me he only accepted a Pepsi. He posed for pictures, and gave Anthony a signed pair of sneakers and a signed poster that he had brought. Then, as he was leaving, he took out his cell phone, made a call and handed the phone to Anthony.
"I just kind of grabbed it and it was Gilbert Arenas on the phone," Anthony told me. "I was just, like, shocked. So I talked to Gilbert for a little bit. He said happy birthday to me. I asked him about his leg."
Then Caron left, in the Range Rover. Then the 15 boys played five-on-five basketball, according to plans.
"We were like, 'We just hung out with an NBA all-star player'," said Youssif Aziz, who was at the party. "It just made the night right there."
"It was awesome," Anthony summarized.

Anthony talks to Gilbert Arenas. (Courtesy Fadel family)
WRC found out about the party through Lindsay Czarniak's hairdresser's son; they ran a piece a few weeks ago, which I never saw at the time, but which you can watch here. I found out about the event via a friend of Anthony's, who reads my blog and e-mailed me the info. To their eternal credit, the Wizards made a concerted decision not to seek out birthday party coverage, figuring that would have made the gesture seem less genuine somehow.
Anyhow, I talked to Caron today. He said the invite had been hanging on his refrigerator, and that he didn't have anything going on that particular Saturday, and that it just seemed like a good idea. He said everyone in the community has been "real courteous and very kind" to him, and that local fans have supported him since he's been here, and that he just thought he should reciprocate.
"I thought it was a good thing to do, to make someone's dream come true," he told me. "It was just as rewarding for me as it was for him."
I asked whether he wasn't worried that every teenager in the D.C. area would immediately send him a birthday party invitation.
"I'm actually moving, so they'll have to find me first," he told me. "As long as I'm not doing anything, I don't have any problem going to anyone's birthday party. I'm not anti-social. It's good being around your fans."
By Dan Steinberg |
May 25, 2007; 4:54 PM ET
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Posted by: littles | May 25, 2007 05:45 PM
Incidentally, my birthday falls on the next Saturday Caron Butler isn't busy. See you guys there.
Posted by: Skin Patrol | May 25, 2007 05:56 PM
Do you think other teams/players do this?
With Caron doing this and Agent 0 doing what he does, the Wizards seems like the coolest, fan-friendliest team in the league.
Are they really head-and-shoulder more awesome than everyone else in the league, or does Mr. Steinberg just make them seem that way by finding little stories like this.
Posted by: Frank | May 25, 2007 06:54 PM
What a pleasant uplifting story as I watch the evening news and all the inhumanity the middle east seems to offer us. Caron seems to be a real gentleman; we should all cheer his good deed. Hopefull next May he'll be preoccupied with the playoffs.
Posted by: Riverpoint | May 25, 2007 06:59 PM
That is just amazing to me. Way to go, Caron!
Posted by: | May 25, 2007 07:41 PM
Congrats to the Lakers on trading a class act like Caron Butler for a no-talent slacker like Kwame Brown. Wiz fans should be proud of him.
Posted by: Matt in Portland, OR | May 25, 2007 08:06 PM
wow, caron is the man. i hope him and the wizards get a title one day, boston loves good basketball and class act's and he is clearly both. what a cool dude he is, him and agent zero and jamison as well are all mad good and cool as hell, that is so awesome he is the man.
Posted by: liam (boston ma) | May 25, 2007 09:18 PM
I can't imagine someone like Kobe doing this. But Caron? Not surprising in the least.
Posted by: TG | May 25, 2007 09:41 PM
nice story & all, but come on ...
he didn't vist some poor/sick/starving child. he drove down the street (in his super rich neighborhood) to another super rich persons house for a vist. wealthy people hanging out with wealthy people don't exactly make for my idea of uplifting stories. maybe if he visited someone in DC's ghettos then i'd be like "wow, how great."
Posted by: WTF | May 26, 2007 01:15 AM
Fair enough WTF.Good point.But Gil did do something like that, he went and played pickup somewhere in Maryland and hung out with everyone on the streets afterwards, signing atuographs, you should check out the youtube clip if you haven't already, it was awesome.
And Kobe probably would do it, as you can see it's really good for PR...
Posted by: Eoin | May 26, 2007 04:05 AM
damn! caron's moving out the neighborhood? now i won't get a chance to stalk..... err, meet him... ;-)
guess coach hubbard will have to do...
Posted by: hmmmmm | May 26, 2007 11:40 AM
WTF:
Evidently, you don't know very much about Caron's background...
Posted by: WGDC- | May 26, 2007 11:44 AM
Caron Butler has always been a class act. And I think we need to also acknowlege this wife being so down to earth to just open the door and be like "one second." Behind every good guy there is a good woman giving him the right support to stay grounded. NBA guys are typically nice in the beginning, but it's pretty clear what Caron has gone through plus having a strong support system just adds to the great qualities he always has had within him. Wizards need to take some of their Arenas marketing money and start getting the word out more about CB3.
Posted by: Vanessa | May 26, 2007 12:47 PM
Ua know, I'm normally a fairly cynical guy, but this is one situation to just plain shelve the cynicism and revel in the fact that we have one of the best guys in the entire NBA on our team. That is just incredible.
I think it helps that Carron is a bit older than alot of other guys in the league and that he's married with a family. His wife seems like a great person to.
I can't imagine what it mus tbe like to be going to a friend's birthday party and having an NBA all-star show up to hang out in the basement for a bit. Just amazing.
Posted by: EricS | May 26, 2007 12:52 PM
Although being from cleveland and a cavs fan, Caron is one of my favorites now.
Posted by: Steve | May 26, 2007 02:18 PM
Caron was just hungry and wanted that cake.
nah, classy guy...well played Tuff Juice!
Posted by: butterbean | May 26, 2007 06:27 PM
As if that wasn't good enough, Abe Pollin baked him a cake with a naked Brenda Todd Haywood inside.
Posted by: Unsilent Majority | May 26, 2007 07:22 PM
Wow Caron never ceases to amaze me. It is one of the worst decisions my franchise (the lakers) made letting him go. He is a great basketball player and an even better person.
Posted by: Steve M. (loma linda, ca) | May 26, 2007 07:40 PM
Caron is awesome, as always. It's really great to have people here that we can root for not just because of their accomplishments on the court but also because of what awesome human beings they are. We truly are blessed. BTW, for you other Wiz fans, there is a new Wizards message board dedicated solely to the Wiz. It's just starting up but the guy who put it together has done an amazing job. We're hoping it turns into something big; a place where all fans can go to discuss their favorite basketball team. Check it out: www.wizardsextreme.com
Posted by: G.A.C.O.L.B.* | May 27, 2007 01:07 AM
WTF, you're just assuming that the family's house that he went to was in fact wealthy. the article states that it was the bday boy's cousin that lives down the street from him, not the bday boy himself.
Posted by: tb | May 27, 2007 01:09 PM
tb- uh, those pictures seem to indicate that he's from a wealthy family. not that there's anything wrong with it...
Posted by: Unsilent Majority | May 27, 2007 09:47 PM
All remember what happens when Kwame sees birthday cake, right?
http://sports.espn.go.com/nba/news/story?id=2733976
Posted by: mmmm Cake! | May 28, 2007 12:37 PM
we must thank the lakers. first for the most lopsided trade in history by trading shaq for caron and odom, and then in an almost hysterical way, trading class act caron for kwame. thank LA. teams like yours so devoted to making all other teams around you better. thank you
Posted by: des | May 28, 2007 05:05 PM
we must thank the lakers. first for the most lopsided trade in history by trading shaq for caron and odom, and then in an almost hysterical way, trading class act caron for kwame. thank LA. teams like yours so devoted to making all other teams around you better. thank you
Posted by: des | May 28, 2007 05:05 PM
yeah, helives only 2 miles away from me . great story Dan.
Posted by: mac | May 28, 2007 05:18 PM
It does not matter whether the young man Caron surprised was black or white, rich or poor, sick or healthy, the bottom line is, Caron didn't have to do what he did. Besides, everyone has dreams, not just sick or poor kids! Caron is a class act and his actions show it. I think it was a great thing to do and I am glad that we have such good hearted young men representing the Wizards and they do the things they do from the goodness in their hearts and not for publicity. I have loved Caron from the moment he stepped on the court as a Wizard and this is one of the many reasons that I do.
Posted by: WizFan4LIfe | May 29, 2007 10:35 AM
It does not matter whether the young man Caron surprised was black or white, rich or poor, sick or healthy, the bottom line is, Caron didn't have to do what he did. Besides, everyone has dreams, not just sick or poor kids! Caron is a class act and his actions show it. I think it was a great thing to do and I am glad that we have such good hearted young men representing the Wizards and they do the things they do from the goodness in their hearts and not for publicity. I have loved Caron from the moment he stepped on the court as a Wizard and this is one of the many reasons that I do.
Posted by: WizFan4LIfe | May 29, 2007 10:35 AM
It does not matter whether the young man Caron surprised was black or white, rich or poor, sick or healthy, the bottom line is, Caron didn't have to do what he did. Besides, everyone has dreams, not just sick or poor kids! Caron is a class act and his actions show it. I think it was a great thing to do and I am glad that we have such good hearted young men representing the Wizards and they do the things they do from the goodness in their hearts and not for publicity. I have loved Caron from the moment he stepped on the court as a Wizard and this is one of the many reasons that I do.
Posted by: WizFan4LIfe | May 29, 2007 10:35 AM
I used to play in the same rec league as a friend (or relative?) of Caron's and he Andray Blatche would come watch the games and cheer him on almost every week. He just sat on the sidelines in a plastic chair like everyone else. Andray would sometimes shoot around with us at half-time and in between games. It's great for the area to have stars who really see themselves as part of the community.
Posted by: Eli | May 29, 2007 11:23 AM
Is Lindsay Czarniak single? And can someone hook a brother up with her phone number? Wow!
Posted by: Blackaces | May 29, 2007 01:26 PM
thats awesome, it seems all we see is negativity and thugs from the NBA, we know there is more , but it's nice to see the good that sports, and basketball can do for someone, and especially because when Caron was in 10 grade we was put in Juv and has made a living playing sports and now he gives so much back to others, its cool
Posted by: a fan | May 29, 2007 06:18 PM
It just amases me how grown adults still look up to and expect so much from professional athletes. And are so judgemental of them. If anyone of us take the time to give back a little something to the world or even your own community in some way. The world would be so much more beautiful. You do not need a whole lot of money to make a difference. I think the young man would of had just as good a time that day if only friends and family show up. Stop worshipping pro athletes. What Cameron did was nice. But don't put to much into it. All that really matters is that the young mans family made a effort to help make his birthday a memorial day.
Posted by: Playswell | May 29, 2007 10:47 PM
awesome but it would be even better if gil showed up
Posted by: wiz fan | May 30, 2007 09:06 PM
Awesome story. One of the posts asked whether other athletes do this stuff, and I thought of Chad Johnson. I live in Cincy and you always hear about him pulling kids aside at the mall and buying them new shoes or a PS2 or something like that. Athletes that take the time to do that stuff are great.
Posted by: Steve | May 30, 2007 10:16 PM
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awesome