Where we live, where we work, where we get married, and where we decide to raise our kids will be completely dependent upon if it is a "friendly" state or area. Of course, I would not totally rule out vacationing somewhere that wasn't inviting, but it does come into play. In the end, I want to go to a place where we can be ourselves, and be seen as just another couple looking to get some R&R from the daily grind. Would I travel far and wide in order to get married? You betcha. For example, Canada has not only become an opportunity to get married, but it is now also on the list of places to move to. That's how important it is (at least to us).

My dream is to go on an African safari, but much of Africa is dangerous for GLBT people. So when choosing where in Africa to go, we decided South Africa would be the safest place to go, and while we're there, we could get married. So yes, it's definitely affecting our travel plans.

I am straight and married and will not give my money to resorts or hotels that have an anti-gay stance, so it affects me, too.

My travel plans are dictated more by what I want to see, than necessarily what I agree with. I don't have a partner, so running off to get "married" isn't on my list of vacation want-to-dos. But on reflection, I don't have any desire to spend much time in the Caribbean, which has an anti-gay reputation and places in the states that I perceive to be unsupportive aren't exactly on my must see before I die list...Utah, Texas, most of the South. Then again, there are some gay friendly places I have no desire to return to either, such as Key West, South Beach, or Palm Springs. And you'd never catch me on a gay cruise (ugh, please!). For me, even San Francisco is losing its lustre. Dirty, expensive, crowded Give me New Zealand over any of those. Not marketed as gay friendly or a reputation of gay hostile. It does have what I like in a vacation, a variety of activities from skiing to kayaking to doing nothing on the beach, clean air, friendly people.